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Topics like these make the other person uncomfortable. Present yourself well, look fresh and clean but don’t go too overboard for the first date.’ Exes are not on the menu: ‘This is an absolute no-go.Conversations about exes or dating history put a negative spin on the date.Today, traditional approaches to matchmaking and dating have changed rapidly.Online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Plenty of Fish and Grindr have soared in popularity and dating agencies like Intro have made matchmaking easier to access.Don’t be tight, don’t have the calculator on your phone ready as soon as the waiting staff set the bill down.
We tend to judge a lot, we look outwardly at what the other person is bringing to the table and what’s wrong with the other person as opposed to seeing our own flaws.
Love isn’t as simple as that, you’re not buying a house or a product, you’re looking for a human with whom you want to spend the rest of your life with and so, you need to be approaching it with a very much open-minded, flexible, willingness to compromise attitude.
Look at the person and not the location.’ Make time for dating: ‘Between working late at the executive job or focusing on our social commitments, people often tell us that they simply don’t have time for dating and that’s when they turn to online services like Tinder and Bumble.
Willingness to compromise and willingness to have grounded, level-headed expectations is important. People can be like night and day from the first and second date.
If you’ve got a list of requirements for a potential partner, you need to revisit it and make necessary cuts.’ Give the spark a chance: ‘You meet a man/woman and he/she doesn’t exactly fit your criteria, so you write them off straight away. Think about it – people can be nervous, or they might have had a bad day at work – you cannot judge the entire person based on one experience in a nervous setting.
You’ll know more after a second date.’ Intro Matchmaking, which Feargal founded with his wife Rena Maycock, is one of the biggest matchmaking agencies in the country, organising a hundred dates every week. Do not moan, moan and moan: ‘Keep the conversation light – do not talk about exes, do not talk about past relationships that went and do not come across angry or bitter.