Dating man ten years older

Posted by / 07-Jun-2020 07:48

I didn’t know how to pay my bills on time, or clean an oven and my bedspread was from the children’s section of Target.Though I’d always thought of myself as mentally and emotionally mature I still saw 30 as “grown-up” and on the inside I felt too similar to a lost little girl.Our problems are relative and the reality is, a lot of the day to day struggles you encounter in your early twenties may be different in your early thirties.It can be difficult for your significant other to fully understand your perspective if they have been removed from the same struggles for years.At first people would ask me if our age difference was bothersome, if it was difficult and/or how it affected our relationship.I would roll my eyes and scoff that it didn’t make difference other than that Jordan was more established in his life and career.

As time went on and our lives became more intertwined my opinion shifted once again.Occasionally Jordan will talk about buying a house, in Seattle the housing market is quite high, and though I know it is realistic for early twenty somethings in other parts of the country to invest in property, in the Seattle metro area it is quite likely you’ll be renting through your mid twenties if you want to live in the city.Jordan and I can both daydream about purchasing a house or condo, however, his ambitions are rooted in reality while mine seem like an idea for the distant future.When one of my friend’s gets engaged I’m freaking out (because NONE of my friends has been engaged yet) while half of his friends are married.I get insecure if his ex girlfriend likes a bunch of his photos on instagram, but he doesn’t understand because some of his friends are dealing with divorces and child support.

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