Christian dating how important is physical attraction beyonce dating jay still z
It’s just less important than many people seem to think.When I have kids who are sick, or throwing a fit, or I’ve made some mistake, or we have a disagreement about our family budget—in times like that, which is a lot of the time—it’s not Monica’s physical beauty that I’m thankful for.I know that’s not always the case, so don’t rule someone out based on appearances (either way).Just be careful, and don’t ignore red flags because he or she looks good on the outside.I don't say that to shame them, but I get the sense that as The Holy Spirit continues to conform us to Christ we will eventually see people as God does.That brings up another common dating question, continuing the theme from last week: How important is physical attraction when choosing a spouse? I say that because, in dating, physical attractiveness is often at or near the top of the list of what people are looking for.However, in marriage, physical beauty is far from being the most important thing.Let me put it this way: there are a lot of traits that are important to look for in a spouse.
And since those other traits can’t be seen at first glance, it may mean you need to give someone a chance and get to know them better.
Now, I know some of you are about to get defensive, or maybe even claim that I have no credibility on this subject because my wife is hot.
(And I definitely think she is.) But I never said that physical attraction doesn’t matter at all.
Some people won’t admit that it’s a major factor, because that might make them seem shallow.
But, it is likely still the first thing you consider when meeting someone and deciding whether you might be interested in dating them.
This question comes up a lot in my current ministry, too, usually in the form of a single friend feeling guilty for not being attracted to an otherwise worthy romantic candidate.